“FEAR is an acronym in the English language for ‘False Evidence Appearing Real.’ —Neale Donald Walsch Having examined how the sex-negative “scare” tactic is perpetuated, let’s look at the pernicious “confuse” tactic. This tactic relies on an audience not to fact-check, as it includes outright lying, omitting important facts (“de-contextualizing”), and even creating false contexts. […]
Posts Tagged ‘donna m. hughes’
Certain Unalienable Rights: Freedom of Expression and Sexuality in the Name of Liberty
08 May 2010 at 14:47
maymay
Community, Kink events, My Videos, Myths and misconceptions, Personal experience, Politics of sex, Vanilla life
Stand Against Stigma: Don’t Succumb to a Fear of Sex, Sexual Speech, or Sexual Freedom
02 Apr 2010 at 22:57
maymay
Community, Personal experience, Personal history, Politics of sex, Vanilla life
I have marched in two Pride Parades. Both times, I marched with the group of people who are skilled enough with that most iconic symbol of sadomasochistic sex to make some serious noise: the single tail whip. I remember the experiences vividly. Pride day is a good day. I raise my arm, swing the whip, […]
Addressing Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks’ concerns over KinkForAll unconferences
27 Mar 2010 at 15:37
maymay
BDSM in the media, Community, Generation gap, Kink events, Myths and misconceptions, Politics of sex, Vanilla life
Following Marie’s example, let’s all take a deep breath. Even though I feel defamed by Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks, I want to address the crux of their concerns about KinkForAll unconferences and ask for their advice. Discreetly tucked away at the end of a 6 page personal assault, they wrote: The open and […]
The Salvation Army incites personal attacks against me; a blog reply
24 Mar 2010 at 18:30
maymay
Emotions, Personal experience, Politics of sex, Vanilla life, Writing and blogging
Update: The attacks against me originated from Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks; the Salvation Army republished and more widely distributed Donna M. Hughes’ and Margaret Brooks’ vicious insinuations. See the bottom of this post for details. Acting on what you believe in is an easy thing to do. At first. But then mean, angry, […]
